Bros: A Hilarious and Heartfelt Rom-Com That’s More Than Just a “First”

Okay, movie lovers, gather ’round! “Bros” is here, and it’s not just another rom-com. It’s a hilarious, heartwarming, and surprisingly poignant film that breaks barriers and challenges stereotypes. And as a proud pansexual Asian and Indigenous American man, let me tell you, this movie hit me right in the feels.

Now, I’ll admit, I had high hopes for “Bros.” I’d been wanting to see it with a certain big brother figure in my life (you know who you are!), and the premise – two commitment-phobic gay men navigating the ups and downs of modern dating – sounded right up my alley. But what I didn’t expect was the depth of emotion and the relatable portrayal of identity struggles that this movie delivers.

I want more movies of Queer narratives where we are past someone having to “come out of the closet”

I want stories where that isn’t the biggest hurdle, to focus on relationship dynamics like everyone else. I don’t want coming out to be the climatic part of the story.

Billy Eichner as Bobby Leiber is an absolute gem. He’s witty, sarcastic, and vulnerable all at the same time. And his journey of self-discovery, as he grapples with his fear of intimacy and the pressure to conform to societal expectations, is both hilarious and heartbreaking.

The supporting cast is equally fantastic. Luke Macfarlane as Aaron Shepard is the perfect foil to Bobby’s neurotic energy, bringing a grounded and heartwarming presence to the screen. And the ensemble cast, featuring a diverse group of LGBTQ+ actors, adds depth and authenticity to the film’s portrayal of the queer community.

“Bros” doesn’t shy away from addressing the stereotypes and challenges faced by LGBTQ+ individuals. We see Bobby struggle with internalized homophobia, the pressure to fit into a certain “gay mold,” and the fear of being vulnerable. And as someone who’s been there, trying to “be normal” for a whole two minutes (the worst two minutes of my life, by the way!), I felt every bit of Bobby’s struggle.

But “Bros” also celebrates the diversity and resilience of the queer community. It showcases a wide range of LGBTQ+ characters, each with their own unique personalities, struggles, and triumphs. And it reminds us that being true to ourselves, even when it’s difficult, is the most powerful thing we can do.

The film’s humor is sharp and witty, with plenty of laugh-out-loud moments. But “Bros” also delivers some genuinely touching and emotional scenes that will tug at your heartstrings. (Yes, I cried. But hey, not much can make me cry, so that’s saying something!)

“Bros” is more than just a “first” – the first major studio rom-com featuring an all-LGBTQ+ principal cast. It’s a film that breaks barriers, challenges stereotypes, and celebrates the power of love and acceptance. It’s a must-see for anyone who’s ever felt like an outsider, struggled with their identity, or just wants to enjoy a hilarious and heartwarming rom-com with a fresh perspective.

So, grab your popcorn, your tissues (just in case), and your favorite big brother figure (if you have one), and head to the theater to see “Bros.” You won’t be disappointed. And hey, who knows? Maybe it’ll even inspire you to embrace your own superpower and be your most authentic self.

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Watch or Order Bros here!

Rated: R (USA)

Runtime: 115 minutes

Release Date September 30, 2022 (United States)

My rating: 7.5 Mainasty Masterpieces 

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